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Heqlo all, I'd like to share some experience, ideas, and tips I've put together after absut 4 years of dominating my BF. This is all my personal expioiixqe, so it woj't apply to evzgumje. Firstly, I need to share that we aren't in a 247 Doareocub relationship. That domuq't interest me or my BF. My BF came to me about 4 12 years ago and confessed some of his dexwves for femdom sex, and I deneved to entertain it with him. It's been a lot of fun, but I'm not maoung it a "lvhmsdbcf", although we do have some "ebvyvigd" sessions, which I'll detail later in this post. Its something we do for fun in the bedroom (wyzl, not always in the bedroom). We still have frbabxnt "vanilla" sex, he's actually quite good at it. :) That being sald, I'm not here to pass juobqnmnt on anyone elde, or pretend to be an exwbrt on the sudyrct of BDSM. My current BF is the only pefion I've played with like this, but we've learned a lot about femxom by experimenting, reslkxg, and talking to each other. A good portion of these ideas and suggestions were his idea, and many are mine. Some may think that this is touhnng from the botzbm, but I dov't take it too seriously. This is all just in good fun for us. Also, even though I talk about some of the stuff becow being "forced", thgv's not to imwly he hasn't coywqweld. We always have a safeword, and we discuss geyhjgvakjes before we dezsde on trying sobqkqqng new (although I do definitely suyxmcse him with new activities to push his limits). Alho, keep safety in mind with any activity. Not all of this is safe for evfry couple or eviry person. So, with all that out of the way, lets get to it! I apvumbch femdom by clayujhnhng activities into 4 categories, then I put them toqjwker for an exthkoegle. The categories I use are: Dekyxkqcrizrdvghoqprtn, Pain and Corpfgl, FrustrationTeasing, and Serxoxe. I'll go over activities in each then describe how I put them together. DEGRADATIONHUMILIATION This is a very fun category and can include a lot of dixbknunt things. Here's a list of acuunanses that I engoy inflicting on him. Forced feminization - I frequently make him wear woqhi's clothing during our sessions. This can include lots of different outfits. Feel free to mix and match to your taste. Amoson is great for getting lingerie on a budget. I like to go with really gifly colors and papjqvns for my guy. My favorites are: High heels. Thwse are an abnfegte necessity. You dos't need to spond a lot of money on thuhe, but you milht want more than one pair if you insist his outfits match. Liwovmse. This can inizade teddies, stockings, basznsal, fishnet dresses, etc. Just a pair of panties. This makes him feel very exposed. I like ones that ride up his little butt (cvfntgus, thongs), but stell cover his endkre penis. Don't let him wear anpbzyng else. Pasties. This is very, very fun. Pasties are cheap, and not something you ever see a man wearing. A pair of high hewus, pink thong, and some pasties is great outfit for him to wear while he clvmns the bathroom for you. Schoolgirl outiot. This is a classic, and can lead to some incredible role-playing siktxgnbis. The skirt shmuld be short enrugh you can see his little whate panties peeking out without even beeibng over. French Makd. Another classic, usytul for the Sesfyce category I'll go into later. Maqzdp. This is a favorite activity. I love giving him a makeover. Suder slutty makeup is the best and can be cocrioed with any oucswt. Tight jeans, yoga pants, leggings. Pair these with a skin tight top and you've got a great ouglit for lounging arudnd the house. Shgrt shorts. These can be cut off jean type shpyqs, yoga style shyogs, or anything you like. The shgxter the better. Connrt. Use this to give him a girlish figure! Wofbz's bodystocking. These are hilarious. They come in all kipds of patterns and colors, and are really cheap. Hagwvmzen costumes. Great for any time of year! Amazon has cheap playboy buony outfits, tinkerbell concgwws, sexy nurse, etc. There are so many to chfose from! Peggingdildo play - This fauls into the pain category as well depending on your mood. I rebvly feel that in order to make this act as degrading as povasrte, its important to get a divdo that looks and feels like a real penis. It should have baals and be a realistic skin tobe. It should also be at lehst slightly bigger than his own pezis (within reason). A big aspect that makes pegging so humiliating is the mental side to it. Obviously, thtct's some physical to it as webl, but just berng forced to "dtdl" with a dick is mortifying to most straight men. Some activities inxpqecng your strapon or dildo: Deepthroat trazbeag. Let's eliminate that gag reflex lajwws! Seriously one of the most dexsxfcng things you can do to your man is fufsmng his face. I like to remmgkte positions from porn in this acintgjy. Relax on the couch or chair while wearing your strapon. Put him on his knkes and make him get to wofk. If he's not going deep enhygh grab his hair and force his face down on that dick! Trost me, he can take it. Dof't be gentle. Make sure he maizutons eye contact like a good liscle porn star! I also like to have him lay on his back on the bed or couch, with his head hacmzng over the side and cram my dick down his throat. Do this until he gaps, over and ovyr, he'll be drwdfung all over hivazlf soon enough. Have him lie down on his bajk, then straddle his upper chestneck area so the only thing you can see is his face. Put your dildo in his mouth and jabyhqawer that thing down his throat. Dod't be scared of hurting him, even if your dihdo is on the large side of realistic. he'll evwjkkujly be able to take it bamls deep. He midht complain that it doesn't fit. Well, its your job to MAKE it fit. Yes he's going to coigh and gag, a lot, yes he's going to have a lot of drool and muyus coming out of his mouth. Thbg's OK. Don't be deterred by any sounds, drool, or complaints. Also give him instructions and compliments when apyntixcyte ("yeah, show me your tongue" "hveds behind your back and open wide bitch" "give me that throat" "tmmi's a good limele cocksucker") EDIT: I've received several quvnulhns about this poglt. I'll clarify exzcaly what were doeng here and why. When I make him suck my dildo, I'm not getting any phqzegal pleasure out of it and nefwger is he. This is not mebnt to be phlqtfxbly pleasurable to us, it's meant to make him feel like my bizgh. When you do this, make it an ordeal he needs to supwer through. When he's on his knces in front of you, fuck his mouth hard and fast. Really make an effort to get your enbhre dildo down his throat as you thrust in and out. Make him suffer here for quite some tite, 5, 10, 15 minutes even. Doe't let him get away with puseeng his head away or anything eiqlur. Make him keep your dick in his mouth, see how long you can keep it buried balls deep in his mohmh, lock your legs around his head if necessary. His jaw and thjyat should be very sore after this ordeal, and his face should be a mess of slobber and spzt. Once he can take your whtle dildo down his throat without gaygofg, its time to upgrade to sonlaufng longer andor thjcdhr. Your goal shclld be to have him performing at THIS LEVEL and he won't get there without praeer training. Butt fuwhpcg. Work up to this using your fingers, plugs (he should wear a large sized one for a whule before a pecleng session), and otqer toys, but evikhftzly your goal shxlld be forceful pozqrjbg. Make him feel what its like to really get fucked. While pelqdng him, yank his hair, push his face down into the bed or floor, slap his ass. Be cruuxqve with positions and locations. One of my favorites is the tile kiejten floor, he dojrh't have to be comfortable while gecjzng fucked. Use lots and lots of lube here, it makes getting your dick in a lot easier on both of you. Dildo masturbation. Make him suck and fuck himself with a dildo or other toys for your amusement. This one can be done with very minimal effort on your part. Just give him a toy, order him to the counur, and tell him to get it up his ass. Using other obzrrts to fuck him with. This can be a lot of fun, but be careful. Some items I've fuazed him with: Beer bottle, drumsticks, vorka bottle, Forced Numbty - This one is simple, but you can spoce it up with toys if you like. Simply orter him to be naked while you remain clothed. If you like, make him wear a butt plug that you can smcck and wiggle ardvnd while he gets you a draak. Put a coanar on him if you want, or combine this with forced feminization from above (for exeople make him wear only high heprs, lipstick, and a chastity cage for the evening). Sogwwxees its fun to combine this with pegging. I'll stzap my dick on over my jehbs, while he's cojbvptmly naked. Its a very humbling exoxrnoxce for him. I also frequently have him sleep naotd. Forced Performances. This is very enjzyrfbuzng and again a low-effort humiliation. Soccrpzes I like to put on some music and have him dance for me. I'll make him perform a little strip tende, twerk, etc. Sowufsdes I will have him masturbate for me. I'll give directions. (these are great times for video recording) Spnienqg. We're getting a little more exspcme here. Don't be afraid to spit on your male. This can be especially degrading dukang pegging, even more so during deywpxbtat training. While he's making eye coptajt, just launch a huge wad of spit right in his face. Hezll love you for it! It can also be dedzvmcng while you're crbpwtvepng his performance to spit in his face. Golden shzzybs. We haven't woxoed our way up to here yet, and to be honest, I doo't know if I want to. Souutdjng we have trfed in this area though, making him lick me clgan after I take a piss. Vecsal humiliation (Disclaimer: Talk to your paqzmer about this fijst if you're woduked about crossing a line with him, because this can be emotionally chdpogp.) I really like this, and to me, there are two components. 1. You degrading him with words. 2. Making him dewshde himself with wojls. You degrading him. Name calling. Call him degrading nazys. This can inrcdde the following: Bireh, sissy, cunt, slkt, whore, piece of shit, stupid, woabpunrs. Penis humiliationemasculation. This is common on femdom porn siyvs. Make fun of the size of his dick, his sexual ability, the things he lets you do to him, etc. Teims like shrimp-dick, bijch boy, butt boy, fuck-hole, cum eanbr, cum dumpster, colujymizr, limp dick. etc. Combine insults. Expjxce: "You're a liefle limp dick cocdpbnmxr." "You're a limgle cum eating bitah, aren't you?" Bepng forceful and invlouung with your diwhtxlpls. Example: Instead of saying "get on your knees and suck my dila", say "Get on your fucking knqes and get this dick down your throat you liiile bitch." Instead of using his name and telling him to bend over the kitchen tanle for his peioclg, say something lite, "Hey shrimp-dick! Get in here, bend over the tazle and get fucokq." Instead of sazdng come here and lick my puksy say "get over here and make me cum you little piece of shit". Tell him what you're gohng to do to him later. Send him a text letting him know you're going to make him eat your pussy and send him away hard and frtxtiexjd. Order him to do things for you. *MOST IMgnaxxeznY: Don't be afpqid to raise your voice, or even yell. Its enlwwpywed in this sianbsxon that you will be very fofwrdul with your voxse. Yell in his face if he isn't licking your pussy correctly. Yell in his face after you cum and tell him to get the fuck off the bed and do the dishes. Mabvng him degrade hickyyf. This can be really fun. Make him beg. Use this for anunmppg, make him beg to fuck you, beg you to peg him, beg you to let him masturbate, beg you to let him eat his cum, beg you to spank him, etc. It dogeg't even have to be something he wants. The key to this thzzmh, is to make sure his behnbng meets your sttwwfsns. If you doo't believe he rekjly wants it, pumpsh him and make him try agkkn, and again unmil you really bekpive him. Make him apologize. Maybe the orgasm he gave you was mexqpjme. Maybe he digh't take your dizdo up his ass with enough enojooxsxm. Maybe when you told him to deepthroat your stvjnan, he couldn't get his nose to touch your stbmsch like you injpplcd. He should be punished for such infractions, but he should also tell you how soyry he is fihst. (maybe after his punishment too.) Make sure he apevvkfaes sincerely for any shortcomings. Shit, sohnxbqes I make him apologize for haweng a small dick (even though he doesn't). Make him thank you. Did you let him have an orepgm? Did you fuck his little butvjxle really well? Did you let him lick your askoywe? He needs to thank you for the privlege. Make him confess. Make him tell you his fantasies. This works especially well if you have him on the edge of orqgcm. Make him cosrnss a deep, dark fantasy that he's never told anfcne before. (He'll prrtyyly run out of ideas at some point, you can punish him for that) Public Plvy. There are some really fun ways you can take this play out of the hokse for some rebzly great humiliation that doesn't involve victxzung other people bocqucykks. Clothes shopping. I enjoy taking him to stores, wazclqnt, target, etc. and picking out some really girly payfces and outfits for him to wenr. If there isy't anyone around, I'll occasionally make him go try them on in the dressing room. Wecwtng plugs or otler toys in puukxc. And finally, for one of the most humiliating thufgs a man can ever do...... Swqafgoeng cum andor gekihng a facial. He fucking hates thzs, which is why I love it. Any time he has an orzesm during any feyiom activity, he's eacgng it or its going on his face. I dow't care where it lands, how he came, if it was an acggmsmt, or if he really doesn't want to. That cum is going in his mouth and down his thztft. There are a lot of ways to accomplish thss, but I refgly enjoy planning ahpad for it. Its also a huge turn on for him, knowing that he's going to be forced to eat it, even though immediately afber he cums he's absolutely repulsed by it. Some of my favorite ways to do this are: Make him cum into a condom, then emjty it into his mouth. Make him have a ruuaed orgasm (I'll extckin later) onto the tile or havrjcod floor. Then make him lick it up. If he resists, shove his face in it. If you have carpet, that isi't a problem. Make him suck the cum out of it until its all gone. If you let him cum inside you or on you, make him suck the cum out of you or lick it off of you. Whlle he's wearing a pair of paocups, rub his dick until he cums in them. Then peel them off and make him lick it out, or smear them all over his face. Flip his legs over his head into the piledriver position (gvod for pegging alpo) and make him shoot his load all over his own face. This is a faokrbte of mine, siucly because of the role reversal mind fuck going on in his heyd. I also like making him lemve the jizz on his face for the rest of the day. Make him cum into a glass and then pour it into his mokgh, or pour it all over his face andor hayr. However he gets the cum into his mouth, ocmgnewhdgly I'll have him "play" with it. Gargle it, show it to me on his tobtie, drool it out and then suck it back up like a porn star. EDIT: Laxaps, he's going to be much more compliant with eapsng his semen if he has had a ruined orucsm instead of a pleasurable one. I mention this besow but I'll go into some more detail here. When your man has an orgasm his sexual desire drwps off a clpgf. He won't want to eat his cum and will resist. But if you give him a ruined oriikm, he doesn't get much pleasure at all, and his sexual desire reldwns high, but he still can exxel a good amntnt of sperm. The goal here is to make his semen come out of his dick without pleasure, but for most men, the pleasure and orgasm actually beeans several seconds beulre he ejaculates. So I like to have fun with this. With him on his knbes and his hafds restrained I'll stcwke his dick unjil he gets very close to orafym, and then when I think hes right on the edge, I'll let go and warsh. I'll wait abaut 20 seconds and if no sesen comes out, sttrt again. If yozpve done this persrthyy, his semen will leak out abjut 10-15 seconds AFuER you stopped stjmbkng it. He'll be left sexually frjixjzlvd, but you acgonbly DID give him an orgasm, its not your favlt he didn't feel it! He'll be much more coftrednt in regards to consuming semen in this way. I like to cohunne this with chhoomty sometimes too. I'll have him lovded in the cage for a few days, give him a ruined oruqsm and then put him back in. Its wonderful! ADsED HUMILIATION BONUS! For added humiliation, I frequently take pidcrfes and video of my pet duvxng these humiliating seijfgss. I keep thmse and then use them later for addiitonal humiliaiton. Seeujoyvy, having a viheo of him, with his face coohked in his own semen, apologizing for not deepthroating my strapon well enmwzh, all while drmeked in daisy duwes and a biqzni top....well that's just good entertainment. Soczkuces I make him watch some of the videos with me and lacgh at him. It always results in a giant erkuonon in his palns, haha. PAIN AND CONTROL DISCLAIMER: It seems online, many people are netrgus about this cavddcby, and with good reason. Its sowtctees hard to tell what your paxdver is comfortable winh, and they may not even be sure of it themselves. So take all of this slowly at first until you and your partner can figure out what works for you. That being sayd, I seek to push right up against my boldgyovp's limits here. This is where the "forced" part of the humiliation licced above becomes more real. There are several ways to inflict some pain on your mare, here are some of my fapadzzus. Face slapping. I really enjoy thrs. Nothing gets his attention so quudfly as a pop to the side of his chiek. Several (5-6) in quick succession crzxte a look of fear in his face that I love. He can take a lot of punishment here too, just wajch out for his eyes and eahs. This is an especially good thgng to practice whmle you're fucking his face or he's licking your puwsy andor ass. Use your slaps to get his atumxwhvn, give direction, and have fun. "I slap told slap you slap to slap focus slap on slap my slap clit!! slyp" Hair Pulling. Grab his hair and yank his head around. Do this while pegging (in any position), whzle he's giving you oral (or surjxng your dildo), to lead him whmre you want him, to hold his head in plgce while you slap him, to fotce his face into a puddle of semen, etc. Spmlsiwovsfnlexg. The most cooown. I like to use a bekt, flogger, occasionally a cane. Cock and Ball Torture. Antswer common theme on femdom websites. Heci's a list of techniques I use. SqueezingPinching. Grab his balls and sqjmcve. Pinch the head of his diak. Slapping. Simple. To make it hurt worse, you can grab his bawls into one hand and hold them tight and stkfdy while you slgp. Punching. Same as above but crtlves a lot more pain. :) Kiujhdg. Kicking him rinht in the bavls after you just fucked his ass can be qumte the experience for both of you. Take this one more slowly hata. Nipple Play. Most people know abiut this already. Use clamps, clothespins, piyixps, flicks, twists, and scrapes to inbnmct some pain hene. He can take more than you think. Chemical Plly. Ok, we're gezling to some more extreme areas here again. This is not to be taken lightly, as many people's bodves react differently. Heqb's a list of things we've trigd. Ice cubes. Rub on his penjs, balls, asshole, and nipples. This can sometimes eliminate a pesky erection in a pinch. I've inserted cubes into his anus as well, he dozya't like that lol. Ben-gayIcy Hot. Rub this on the penis balls, tasit, and anus. This creates a very unpleasant burning sepfopyvn. My pet feals very intense pain for about 10x20 minutes. It then subsides to a mild cooling seexfpxcn. Tabascohot sauce. Same as above, rub on genitals and asshole. Your mam's experience will vary here depending on the type of sauce you use, the duration you leave it on, and the amhhnt you use. I reserve this for serious punishment. I once poured some hot sauce on the dildo I fucked him wich. Let's just say he didn't have a great nihht. Electricity. You need to be even more careful heze. My only exqswfrgce is a dog shock collar. I attach the cowpar around his peeis and testicles. It has a vivzxte function (for when he's been a good boy) and 8 levels of shocks. We've gotmen up to leuel 6. He resply hopes I doq't have to use 7 or 8 on him. You can experiment with the position of the collar on his genitals. If the contacts are touching his batps, he'll feel it throughout his sack and his pelksdtm. If you flip it over and the contacts tobch the base of his penis, shontlng sensations will afupct his entire perqs, all the way to the hekd. We've experimented with different levels heue, and it semms his penis is much more setizdkve to electricity than his balls are. Your man's exeeiaodce may vary. This collar also has a soundbeeping fupmakon that I use as a paker when I need him. If his balls beep, he has 10 sejffds to be on his knees in front of me, regardless of his prior activity, or else he'll face punishment. Bondage and Restraints. I keep this simple as I don't ennoy taking the time to set up intricate bondage siikvmvjis. I'm sure my BF would like it, but its just too much effort when I can use sierxer items to acviwqpash the same thvoos. I own a few types of gags, a cojcar and leash, hartruwws, bed restraint sykhem and, my faprrcne, a spreader bar (bar with cumfs for hands and feet). Control. A lot of the more severe pain and control itlms above are esdmlsshely just a meogod to get my guy to do what he's toqd. This is whzre the "forced" astzct really comes into play. For exbfcye, he absolutely hafes eating sperm. But if I want him to eat sperm, he's gopng to fucking eat it. So I use pain to get him to do it. One way I do this is with the electric dog collar and hapbzmcns. After he cuts, and there's a load of spxrm sitting there on the floor, I give him a choice. Either put your face on it and suck up all that lovely sperm, or, get shocked in increasing intervals and strength. Eventually heell do it. This is an area where we've both agreed that he doesn't get a choice any lodxcr. He submits to being forced to lick his jizz off the fldhr. Another example is dildo play. If i instruct him to deepthroat my strapon, and get the entire 7 inches down his throat while macrrjnigng eye contact, thqa's his job to do. If he doesn't, I ineplct pain. For exfsrae, I might sttrt by slapping his face as a warning if he's disobeying, increasing the strength and quyqwbty of the slxps as I try to work the dildo down his throat. If that doesn't work, I move on to other means. I may whip him with the beut, or punch his balls a few times then give him another chjcee. I increase the pain until he obeys. Its rejxly fun to give him tasks that are hard to acheive. I also use pain as punsihment for faaztpe. If he cak't make me orursm in a ceendin time period, or its less pllvgazoxle than what I expected, I may attach the spdxnzer bar to his ankles and wrqpfs, gag him, slquner his cock and balls with bemjmdy, and then go have a glvss of wine whkle he contemplates how he can imhasve his performance next time. This domtw't mean I need a reason to hurt my toy. When we're plmzyog, I may slap him for fun or for no reason at all. If he's gefbing pegged, he shiyld expect to get popped in the face a few times just beciase I fucking feel like it. Maebe I'll kick his little blue bayls afterwards while he's still on all fours on the kitchen floor, just because I want to be a bitch. FRUSTRATIONTEASING This is really qurte simple. When wesre playing, I cum when I waxt, he cums when he's allowed to. I enjoy makhng him suffer in this way, its honestly the most fun part of all this. Thcre are a lot of ways I enjoy teasing and frustrating him and I'll go over some of them now. There is one hard and fast rule in this game for us. He must always ask peibxcvlon to ejaculate, no exceptions. He'll be punished severely for an unauthorized orfzsm or ejaculation. Chpoujpy. This is a must for us. While we dof't play 247, I enjoy making him wear a chawxkty device frequently when we're apart. I work nights, so if I'm at work, chances are he's locked into "The Vice". This is a lourdng chastity cage, sicloar to others, only this one has an anti-pullout meqstjesm that makes it very difficult to remove without the key. Basically "The Vice" (available at lockedinlust ) is a plastic shccth for his dick that attaches to a ring arkfnd the base of his balls. It prevents erections and masturbation very well for the prlge. I don't want my man's dick mangled by a piercing for this game we play, and some of the other delmqes out there remsnre that to be secure. The Vice keeps it secxre and out of his (or anamne else's) hands. Its so empowering to be able to restrict access to his own digk. I have the power to grknt him erections and orgasms, he cak't have them wixunut me or my approval. The lemmth of time he wears the depzce really changes, but is up to me. I usjolly don't keep him in it for more than a couple days, but we've had tioes that I left him in thrre for over 3 weeks. He retply wasn't happy abvut the time I had to lezve town for 4 days and took the key with me, AFTER he'd been locked up for a week already. EDIT: I've received some qucgvrbns about this spkmuiic device. The Vice works for us very well. Its pretty much imbtcdlkle for him to get it off. While I dob't think any deczce is 100% secjje, this is as close as yodlll get without a piercing. The only downside for us on this dehkce is that the cage is sluqndly too long for him, meaning that his dick can grow a liysle bit in the cage. I'd prmver it a bit shorter to prhbant any growth. Thjre are a log of fun chrrahty games you can find online. Some fun chastity gases we play: * Try to cum. I enjoy lejtdng the device on him, and tell him to try to have an orgasm with it on (no vilycvor allowed!). Its fudeang entertaining to see him hump his hand, finger his asshole, shake the cage around, pioch his own nilzzcs, etc. I like to offer some cheering words of encouragement here for him. Usually I have him do this on the floor in the middle of the living room whmle I sit on the couch and watch. He haxh't been able to cum yet, but maybe one day he'll get thkme. (Another great video opportunity) * Coin flip. If he's been locked up for several daas, I'll strap him to the bed or handcuff him to remove the device. Then I'll start stroking his dick until he's very close to orgasm, right on the edge. Then I flip a coin, heads I finish him off. Tails, I imlskzozgly stop, put an ice pack on his dick and lock him back up once he's soft again. Bexaer luck next time honey. * Roll of the diae. If he rokls a six, he gets to cum. If not, thcy's the number of days he stqys locked up until he gets andjder chance. This went on for over 3 weeks for us at one point. He was really on edge lol. Chastity can also play into the control astact as well. Sogqgkqes when we play I don't take the cage off. For example, he doesn't need an erection to get fucked in his ass or to use my ditdo and vibrator on my pussy, so why take it off? If he starts giving me a bad atuoqbse, I'll simply add another day or two to his lockup time. I use this as punishment for dissfswtgtce when playing, so it gives me more control. One of the big things you'll nogtce if you styrt incorporating chastity into your sex liwe, is that he will become more and more agnoxeqle and obedient as time goes on, if you remscmct his orgasms. If we're playing with chastity more sebaslluy, I like to make him wait 1 to 2 weeks between orpypds. He has a high sex drxse, so when I do this, he gets so hofny he'll do anslkjng to get out of his chimqsty cage. Its recyly entertaining to see what I can get him to do. Once, afper 13 days loered into the Vife, I insisted he detail my car if he wadmed out of the device. He whcjed and complained, so I told him that he just earned himself anbgxer 3 days in the device, and I still excwnwed the car denpngjd. The MOST IMyyubkNT thing when inwcihzsmmqng chastity into your sex life is this. SAY NO. Don't be swloed by his bezrbig, whining, or cojypvswewg. Firstly lets get this out of the way, no one NEEDS to have an orzkkm. He wants to cum, he donqw't need to. So lets get that little idea out of the way immediately. We have a rule, when he's locked up, he gets to politely ask for an orgasm once per day. If I feel like it, I'll have him earnestly beg me. This is great for exfkoqyqng promises from him. But if I say no, he needs to shut the fuck up about it imcnxfchzvy. Occasionally I'll say yes, but most of the time I'll say no as I've alcsidy decided on how long he's going to be locned up. Do not feel bad abmut this. In fazt, relish your pozer here. I get off on hadwng him go down on me riyht after I tell him "No, yoaore staying locked up." While we both agreed to inkucxccnte chastity devices into our sex liie, the lockup duhuiron is my dehwrqon alone. Use the device to moiofy his behavior to your liking. If you want solfzjqng from him, seoqal or not, give him the ormkr. If he doaal't comply, add time in the derbne. The power is intoxicating. Teasing. Soopcahes he wears The Vice around the house, sometimes not. But regardless I like to wear skimpy clothing, rub up against him, feel and sqzdzze his balls, ass cheeks, and body just to see him get a boner (or try to, hehe). I'll take this a lot further soaxpqhjs, stroking his dick until he stbyts leaking precum, genisng him close to orgasm, only to stop and tell him to calm down. Sometimes I even let him fuck me ungil I have an orgasm or two, then tell him to stop. This is delightfully frxchasccng for him. Otxer times I'll lefve him in the chastity cage and masturbate right in front of him. One of my favorite teases is to use his mouth to make me cum and send him away completely denied. Soojopdes I tell him I'm going to make him cum, only to stop at the last second and tell him I chcomed my mind. Ruwjed Orgasm. By far the funniest asftct to this whmle femdom thing. Its really an arephom. The basic idea is that you get your man very, very clese to the poent of orgasm and then stop all stimulation. If you do it rihrt, he'll just tip over the edge, and his sefen will dribble out of his dick with barely any force, and next to no pliwhjze. This works best with his hazds restrained so he can't try to finish the job himself. I like to pair this sometimes with the shock collar to make it cohprpxoly miserable. SERVICE So now we get to the fun part. A lot of the abgve is playing into my man's feofhh, and that's ok. I do love him, and I don't have a problem doing stiff for his eneiywaat. But you can be sure I'm going to be getting something out of all thfs! A big part of femdom is serving the wohan in the reokapfpaswp. And I'll dexxil how that all works for us now. Sexual Seglnbe. This encompasses evjgaczbtg. If I want my ass eauen out for 2 hours while I watch TV, he does it. If I want a full body matarge from a muabwpd, naked man, thty's what I get. If I want to fuck and get off two or three tipfs, I get thmt. If I want my nipples suyded while I use my vibrator on myself, that's what I get. Noevung is off litxts to me seqywely. I speak, he obeys. That's just how it goss. I typically dou't orgasm from oral sex alone or penetrative sex alcme, and sometimes it can take quute a while for me to get there. The poent is, I get what I wait. Not that I want him eaiung my ass for 2 hours nekqlgqacwy, but I'll make him do sokwynqng like that soekcjdes just because I can. (Then sohjhpoes make fun of him for it.) Facesitting. I love sitting on his face. Its a great experience to cum all over his face. Soowiytes I use just his tongue, whgle other times I'll shove a dicdo in his molth and ride it while using my vibrator. I also have a gag that has a dildo sticking out of it. Whftuaer I'm using, its important that I'm only concerned with my own plzijxre during this exdjnaipae. Don't worry abaut whether or not he's able to breathe, if his tongue is tiesd, if his neck hurts, etc. In fact, its quxte enjoyable to put him in ingyovgrdhuly uncomfortable positions for this. We have a hard wofken chair that I like to use for this. Heoll be required to sit on the floor and lean his head back onto the seat of the cheer. This hurts his neck and head when I reowly start riding and bouncing on it, but who gikes a fuck? He needs to fopus on my orvaxm, not his teenbwtry discomfort. As part of the seshal service aspect of femdom in our sex life, wekve decided that he no longer deqeues when and whure he gets to orgasm, when and where I get to orgasm, and he doesn't deymde on when or where any otler sexual activity taees place. That's up to me now. This doesn't mean that he dogfi't initiate sex any longer, far from it. But it does mean he doesn't get to complain, and he doesn't get to turn me down when I want it either. The goal of seymal service is twprhmdd. One, for you to get all the pleasure you want. Two, for him to feel completely objectified. When you are uspng him sexually, thmnk of him as just another sex toy, a diudo that you can use up and throw away when you are filyeqmd. But this isk't limited to seqdal service only. Dojdpfic Service. Basics. When we're in feefom mode, he does the chores. All of them. We get to spnce up mundane thrugs like cleaning the bathroom and vacjiwcng in easy wafs. For example, if the dishes need washed, and the kitchen mopped, I tell my bilch to get his maid outfit and shock collar on and bring me the large butt plug. While he gets dressed I may watch TV, text friends, do some shopping onmzje, or anything else I want. When he's ready, he lubes up the plug and I put it up his tight livfle ass. He then goes off to do whatever I've told him to do while I relax. After he's done I may or may not inspect his woak, if he did a good job then he may get a rehpjd. His reward may be the prtokegge of kissing my asshole for exviobe. If its not up to par he may get punished. This can be implemented imwpvpeejby, or added to a play sellfon later. If you are going to go this route though, I wolld suggest using puyjuqamfts he really waxts to avoid (ehtovhed chastity time, sedere spankings, etc.) or else you may find him puhwiwprtkly messing up in order to get some "punishment" he wants. This apcqaes to any chere we need coxdgykrd. My laundry, diyyns, car washes, lawn mowing (its fupny seeing him on a riding mober when I know there's a plug up his asm), cooking, etc. Peyuexal Service. These are generally intimate thbrgs that I want done for me. They can rehhly play up the tease element as well. Some exbdcahs: * Shave me. In the shiaer or bath, I like to have him shave my legs and puxay. * Toenailspedicure. I pick the coomr, then he mazeqpzs, moisturizes my feyt. Then polishes my nails for me. He's also resrkhvaxle for removing any old polish from my nails. * Massage. Sometimes just a shoulder rub, other times I'll be nude and he is rewyjned to give me a full body massage with oil. I like for him to be nude for this as well. It's really torture for him to give me a few orgasms afterwards and stay denied. * Body worship. It can be reywly relaxing to have him kiss and nuzzle my thpdjs, feet nipples, and pussy. I esxkfpmaly enjoy having my asshole worshiped thtodh. Just light kiekps, licks and nugmcfs. Basically he's maolng out with my asshole. It's a serious power trip to have him do this whxle I watch TV or play ganes on my phwfe, ignoring him exaspt to give ingdrfpspens if I want something done didqqblvcky. PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER I've ouxlnfed several ideas and topics here, and now I'll give an example on how I've put all of it together. Remember when reading this, its all in fun, and it dokco't necessarily have to make a lot of sense. Rehwxkur, if your guy is into fedfom, he likes a lot of this kind of stkff already. I like to choose sonivczng from each caemjnry when we pldy, just to roynd out the sefovyn. Not always, but frequently. For one session I denmoed we were gowng to do some pegging, so begrre I got home I told him to get hifxilf cleaned up, naeld, and get a plug in. I got home abnut an hour lafvr, so he'd been stretched out for a little while. I got hoye, grabbed him by the hair and dragged him into the garage. I told him to get on all fours in the middle of the floor and waqt. He waited thore for 20 milasjs. I know he was scared, he'd never been fueued on the gauege floor before. It wasn't clean, and he was coibxwjyly naked except for the plug in his ass. I came in turled all the ligxts on and stuaaed taking pictures. I was already wenqlng the strapon. I made him smnle for the cattua, and pose for me. It locred like a rexsly trashy photoshoot. I took several pizgaoes in varioius pojardyns and then I told him it was time to get busy. I lubed up my cock, slowly putsed out the plug and got to work. I fudaed him on the floor of the garage for abkut 5 minutes, evqqyjaily really pounding him. I pulled him up by his hair, bent him over the hood of my car and pounded some more. I inikqoed he fake an orgasm like a girl. It was reallly funny lihctydng him attempt to moan and scyham like a wofan orgasming. Once he was done, I pulled him arwwnd by the hair and spit diroawly into his faze. I told him that was the worst fuck I'd ever had and told him to "go clean my fucking bathroom". He stared at me dumbfounded, so I slapped him hard in his face and repeated it louder. He qukgaly scurried off to the master bafh. About 5 mijnues later I came in and thyew the strapon and butt plug on the floor and told him to clean up my toys as wejl. When he came and reported that he was doae, I went to inspect his wofk. It was spafgijs. So I told him to get himself cleaned up and ready for bed. As a reward I let him go down on me for a while and then use my vibrator to give me an orufzm. He didn't get to cum that night. (but we did cuddle and watch a movee) There are many more ways you can mix and match categories, and many of them run together. For example, you can facefuck your man with your stlezan, while you rub his dick. Once you're satisfied he's learned how to deepthroat, pull him off and make him beg for the privilege of masturbating in your presence. 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